Weigh wars or how to start loving yourself no matter the size.

Now everyone of us girls finds at least one trait in themselves which we don't like. In my case- its the curvaceousness, voluptuousness oh, blast it, whatever you call it it will not change the fact that I am fat. I have been fighting it for as long as I remember, I have to admit that some battles i won but in most cases the curves were winners. The best diet as I have come to realize is L_O_V_E - butterflies in your stomach pretty much kill all the hunger and you just feel as light as a feather and you wanna fly..I guess everyone knows exactly what I am talking about.
Well to cut the story short, I figured that it's about time to declare war once again with hopes for the best. Bla bla bullshit.
It always makes me wonder why do we obsess that much? Why can't I just start loving and accepting myself the way I am? How hard is it? There are so many real life examples of curvy and yet beautiful and gorgeous women. So this is my conclusion- I will try to lose some weigh in order to stay healthy -meaning that I will try to eat healthy and exercise a little at least, but at the same time I will start to learn how to love myself , no matter the size. After all , self-confidence is the sexiest outfit :) xxx
PS: and in order to get inspiration I will post some pictures of the curvy women I admire.

Gorgeous, gorgeous Tara Lynn (I think i have a little crush on her ;) )